If you wish for people forgiveness ... forgive others

Someone asked me regarding about the purpose of Christmas , is it a season for giving ? Because everyone is buying present for someone .... The word " for giving is quite right , we need to join the 2 words into 1 ,... That is FORGIVING .... is not about present , is about LOVE ...

Christmas ...... 25th Dec is the day what people believe Jesus was borned ... One of the purpose Jesus was here during that time was to teach the world about LOVE and FORGIVENESS ...

We are here to experience the life of human , and 1 of the characteristic of human is they are not perfect , and they will feel guity after that , then they will punish themselve for that ....

The solution for that is " FORGIVENESS " ... ...

If the world understand and practice LOVE and FORGIVENESS ... There will definately be less war , accident , illness and crime ....

To love and forgive someone who treat us well is simple .... what Jesus taught us using His own life is not that ... ... When a person is able to love and forgive someone who ''harmed and hurted '' them , that is the true LOVE and FORGIVENESS ...

Along our path as a human being , we definately will do something wrong and hurted someone .... .... most of us will wish and hope for the forgiveness of that person ..... ..... but are we willing to give love and forgiveness to the person who hurted us ...

When a person keep harted in his heart , he will attract harted to himself ...

Give out love and forgiveness and they will come back to you ....

When not winning is the true winning ...

Is Winning really so important ? After winning what's next ? Keep winning ? What next ? .... .....

Winning makes one feel good , but if ego kicks in , it will be very destructive ... ... Who are we really winning ? Who are we really losing to ?

What and why are we fighting for ? Do we really need to fight in order to own something ? Do we really own it when we hurt someone else ? Can one own a thing positively if they do negative things to others ? ..... ...

Case for thought : A fighter moved around fighting others for medals and titles ... he struck so hard that cracked the faces of all his opponents ... .... people named him " The Undefeated Iron fist " .... ... 5 years later , he went to challenge a man , he threw punches after punches , kicks after kicks ..... and they were all missed ... ..... not a single one got close to the man , he tried and tried , aiming so hard with all his strength wanting to defend his titles .... ...... he threw the attack non-stop .... and suddenly , he felt a tap on his head , the man said : '' Ok , you win , I got to go and do my job ..... '' { The man chop trees and make them into wood and sell to the villages }

The fight stopped , the fighter won again ...... a week later , as he was walking along the road beside the forest , he heard someone was chopping the trees , he went closer to take a look and was shocked that the man he fought a week ago was chopping trees and breaking them into pieces using his palm { His family was so poor that they don't have money to buy an axe , since young that man was trained to break trees with his palm .... }

Who really win ? Who really lose ? What is the true purpose and meaning of winning ? .... ...... Is it to please and to tell the whole world that you are able ??? If one day you never do well , then what ? ? Will it make you a loser ?

There is a greater purpose in life beside winning ? And true winning doesn't mean that we got to be ahead of someone ..... or we got to own something .....

The BASIC reason and purpose of SELF DEFENCE ....

The most basic reason of self defence is to keep safe and stay alive .... not to engage the attacker or attackers if there is an option to back off ...

No matter how good you think you are , you can't tell the standard of another person you don't understand .... to engage in that situation will put one life at risk for no good reason ... we will never engage a fight if there is an option of dis-engagement ..... especially with someone that you don't know at all is not easy to gain victory '' ....

Example : Never chase a snatch theft alone .... ....

One of my student's handphone was snatched ... and people asked her whether she gave chase ? And why I never teach them to defend their property ???

I teach self defence for students to defend againt their GREATEST PROPERTY - their life ...... STAYING ALIVE is more important than anything else ....

Train well , be SMART !!!

Reason to live ...

People come for Spiritual counseling for many different reasons ... ..... many of them came to me to find out the reason or reasons why they are here ? The aim in this life ..... .... and is that really so important ??

Some people step out of their house to work , some to play , some to meet people , some to visit someone or some places .... .... some never want to return and wish to stay out , some will return home .... some just lost their way back .... some just become lost and don't know what the reason of coming out and where to go .... ??

Do you ever have that feeling of confusion ? The feeling of getting lost ?? It is like an arrow flying without a target or an aim ... ?

Finding the reason to live will let the human understand why are they going through certain unique challenges right now ... .... when you know your purpose here , those challenges will become an interesting experience ... and not a suffering period ....

............. ................. ............ Is good to wander ... just don't forget the way HOME and the purpose for coming out ....

What is LOVE ..???

LOVE ........... ???? Simple word with a great meaning that take time to realise , different people has different understanding and interpretation... what is really right or wrong is really subjective ...

My understanding ??? .. Is going to depend on who you are ? who , what , when you love and why and for what you love it ???

I can't speak for the whole world .... but to my personal understanding , it is a very strong and powerful energy which able to turn things around .... from one side to another ... Just like the electric energy in the human world , it is always there , it is some how neutral in nature .... it is very powerful , and depend on who use it for what ..... ..... it will become a either constructive or destructive force ....

.... ...... ..... Do handle LOVE with CARE .....

Don't fight for dust ...... ......

Miko ... my 15 years old pug helped me to realise something that many people know .... but not many REALISE ...... ...........
As I showered him in the morning , his fur is dropping and water washed them away , it reminded me that how old was Miko ... and how fast time flew ... .... his body was getting weaker and weaker everyday due to old age ... .... and soon his life will pass on ..... .... and like JJ my chihuahua who passed away almost 2 years ago .... .... will turn to dust and join back into the nature - EARTH ....

Human body I am in now , is the same like them ... .... the earth provide all the food we eat, and from those food we are formed .... we came to this earth naked , with NOTHING ... and we are go to leave with NOTHING ..... .... Everything we figth for - the house ... the money .... the woman and man ..... is make from dust and will be ended up turning back into dust .... ...so what are we really fighting for .... ???

Is ok and alright to work hard to earn something ..... .... but over craving for it , till we do negative stuff will cause alot of unneccesary pain and suffering not just to ourselves , but to the energy of this universe as a whole .... .....

Life is not about fighting for more , it is about being happy of what we are having ... .... and when you are able to do that , you don't need to FIGHT for more any longer, because the MORE will just come to you .....

Count our blessing ... don't take them for granted ....

Everything we have is a blessing to us .....our health , this country ... the sun ...moon .... this universe .... ... this life we are living , are all our blessing .... ....

Our earth keep and support us here with other living creatures , we all supposed to live together in harmony , because we share this earth TOGETHER .... and due to human's ego and greed ..... they try to take over the control and destroyed the nature and caused the extinction of so many creatures ..... ego and greed not just harmed the creatures , human fight war after war and caused the death and suffering of so many innocent lives .....

Ego and greed of human now is reaching a point that is causing harm to the earth .... and she is losing the ability to heal herself ..... if they still go on , soon they will lost everything .... everything .....

Human got to count their blessing and don't take anything they have for granted .... or soon they will be left with NOTHING ..... NOTHING ....