Love ..Keep it SIMPLE ...

Keep love simple ...

Simply care, share, appreciate, smile, laugh....

3 Bacis Human needs :

1. Attention

2. Affection ( Touching with love )

3. Appreciation

Love your lover as who he or she is .... 100% acceptance. accept that he/she is as unique, as special as ONE and only him/her in the entire Universe ;)

Love is when you look at your lover's in the eyes and you are sure without any doubt that GOD exist in the WORLD ;)

Love is when you look at anything, at any place, at anyone and you can always see GOD ;)

What is GOD then ? GOD is LOVE :)

What you add in is what you are going to get ...

People love to ask me to assist them to look into their future .....

Past experiences + Belief + Action + Choice ( Karma ) = Future

Can we change our future ? ... Of course !!!!!!!!

Is too simple

1. Change the negative belief of our past experiences

( Clear those lower energy in it )

2. Make good choices and Adjust your action toward similar cases ....

Things which are too simple may turn confusing ;) ....

Drop the EGO and everythings will be fine :) .....

Or ..... How about this : ..... If you want a different soup, change the ingredients you are adding into it ..... a lot of people only keep changing the water without changing the ingredients .... Example : They just keep changing their partner without changing their attitude, beliefs and feeling toward their relationship ....

Whatever energy you are add to your life now will create your future ;)

WATCH OUT WHAT YoU ARE ''INPUTTING'' or ''PROGRAMMING'' INTO YOUR MIND.. CHECK AND TO BE SURE THAT THEY ARE '' POSITIVE '' TOWARD YOUR LIFE :)

Love

You can only give what you have :)

People ask me many questions regarding " LOVE Making "... during counseling ... And frankly speaking there is no really a 100% true answer for all the questions, people are different.... and we all got to know that not everyone is like us .

Communication and interaction are the important key to make a relationship healthy . Understanding, forgiveness and acceptance bring both people closer to each other.

Love making is a huge and unique topic and is a very important connection and interaction channel between 2 lovers ...

The pointer which I feel is true ...'' You can only give what you have''

Learn how to love and make love to ourselves is very important ... If one can't love themselves and don't know how to make love to themselves then how can they expect others to love them and make love to them . Clear whatever blockage in our mind regarding love making and '' Fire up '' our love life ...

MAKING LOVE to ourselves means everything you can think of and imagine getting truely intimate and in LOVE with yourself ;)

What is LOVE ..???

LOVE ........... ???? Simple word with a great meaning that take time to realise , different people has different understanding and interpretation... what is really right or wrong is really subjective ...

My understanding ??? .. Is going to depend on who you are ? who , what , when you love and why and for what you love it ???

I can't speak for the whole world .... but to my personal understanding , it is a very strong and powerful energy which able to turn things around .... from one side to another ... Just like the electric energy in the human world , it is always there , it is some how neutral in nature .... it is very powerful , and depend on who use it for what ..... ..... it will become a either constructive or destructive force ....

.... ...... ..... Do handle LOVE with CARE .....

Count our blessing ... don't take them for granted ....

Everything we have is a blessing to us .....our health , this country ... the sun ...moon .... this universe .... ... this life we are living , are all our blessing .... ....

Our earth keep and support us here with other living creatures , we all supposed to live together in harmony , because we share this earth TOGETHER .... and due to human's ego and greed ..... they try to take over the control and destroyed the nature and caused the extinction of so many creatures ..... ego and greed not just harmed the creatures , human fight war after war and caused the death and suffering of so many innocent lives .....

Ego and greed of human now is reaching a point that is causing harm to the earth .... and she is losing the ability to heal herself ..... if they still go on , soon they will lost everything .... everything .....

Human got to count their blessing and don't take anything they have for granted .... or soon they will be left with NOTHING ..... NOTHING ....

Don't tag a special date on the special person ...

Everyday has the same hours ... same minutes and seconds ..... .... Same day and same night .... but people named a certain days different names and expect people to behave differently.... and got to treat certain group of people very nice ... example .... Mother's day ... Father's days .... Children day , Teacher's day ..... they are expected to treat their mother , father , teachers and kids very good .... bring them out .. eat good meal.... buy things for them and make them happy ....

They named certain days for certain religion and wanted people to behave super holy and love the GOD they trust ....

If you really love those people ... if you really love your GOD ..... treat every single moment a special moment ..... .... don't wait till a so called special day to make that person feel special .... ....

Don't wait for that special day ..... ..... if you really have special feeling with the people around you , every moment is SPECIAL ..... there is NO need for a special day to let that person feel SPECIAL .... If there is a need for that SPECIAL day ... that person is not really a special person in your life ....

LIFE IS GOOD !!! LIVE IT WELL !!!!!

How to stay in LOVE ...

This is a very common question ...... HOW TO STAY IN LOVE ????? !!!!

What is LOVE ? .... Different people see it , feel it , look at it differently ....

What is your view point ?

A lot of Spiritual Leaders touched on this topic ..... Spiritual love ... Godly love ..... Does this type of love really exist in this world now ?

I believe so ... but not so many people are able to experience it . When there is a " Right " provider ...... there need to be a " Right " reciever ....

Try this .... close your eyes and relax ... think of this : the " Nature " love us and it provides us a lot of things without asking any thing in return ...

At least we should be happy that we have the LOVE of Nature surrounding you and me ...

There are so many form of version of LOVE people named it ....

For me .. Love is able to share peace and joy with the one close to you .

Will it last forever ?

..... ...... cherish every single moment and live it to the fullest .... ( Nothing really last in this universe ) ....

Be more Forgiving .... nothing can be forgotten but things can be FORGIVEN ... Try to find ways to live in harmony with your close one ...

Set up a good ''communication channel'' for one another Eg . plan at least once a week to get really close and quiet , go and do whatever both really enjoy doing .... take time and interest to understand your love ..... listen and observe ..... create a balance path with your partner .

Do something .... but don't over do it , or else it may cause certain form of " side effort " .. Eg . Love someone is good , but once that person over doing it may turn pocessive and naggy ... that normally will turn someone off ...

Loving someone is able to give him / her peace and joy ....

The " Right " one ...

1. How to attract and... Who is going to be my " Right " one ?

Jackiie ... : If you are always searching for the " Right " one .... You may be always in the " Wrong " side ..... Or you are created as the " Left " one ... :p ( Kidding )

Man without woman is not complete .... Woman without man is not full ... Everybody needs somebody ..

I always feel that the one we feel close to us " NOW " is always the "Right " one ... even though we don't think so at this moment ...

We grow wiser through experience .... and most of the time it is the " tough " one that make us .

When we have someone beside us and we still thinking of getting the " Right " one .... maybe something is not so right in our mind ....

" Always live well and live to the fullest in the NOW ... " ...

If that is a mistake .. make it the right one ....

Most of the time we are thinking of the " Right " one .... but forgotten to make ourselve " Right " to attract that person ...

And most of the time we don't even know what and how the " Right " one we want should be like ? ....

If you have someone and still feel that person is not " Right " .. Do the following exercise ?

Still down quietly and breathe well .....

Close eyes and be in silent ..

Once we feel calm , then ask this questions ...

1. What kind of character am I having now ?

.... write them down as truthfully as you can ...

Check the list you have written .... and see is the one with you now having the similar character with you ?

There will be normally these few cases ...

1. They maybe sharing the same character with you ....
Example : A enjoy eating , his partner will normally share the same love ..

2. They maybe totally opposite .... when there is strong contradiction in what you are thinking ...
Example : A is a very quiet person , but he wish to be more adventurous ... then maybe A will ended up wilth a person with a total different character with him ...

If we want the " Right " one , we got to know our own character .... and to find out what we really want without any contracdiction ...

And realize this .... sometime the person you are with now , maybe the one who is going to build you better for your future " Right " one ... So cherish every single moment , live it well and the " magic " will show you the way .. .