If you wish for people forgiveness ... forgive others

Someone asked me regarding about the purpose of Christmas , is it a season for giving ? Because everyone is buying present for someone .... The word " for giving is quite right , we need to join the 2 words into 1 ,... That is FORGIVING .... is not about present , is about LOVE ...

Christmas ...... 25th Dec is the day what people believe Jesus was borned ... One of the purpose Jesus was here during that time was to teach the world about LOVE and FORGIVENESS ...

We are here to experience the life of human , and 1 of the characteristic of human is they are not perfect , and they will feel guity after that , then they will punish themselve for that ....

The solution for that is " FORGIVENESS " ... ...

If the world understand and practice LOVE and FORGIVENESS ... There will definately be less war , accident , illness and crime ....

To love and forgive someone who treat us well is simple .... what Jesus taught us using His own life is not that ... ... When a person is able to love and forgive someone who ''harmed and hurted '' them , that is the true LOVE and FORGIVENESS ...

Along our path as a human being , we definately will do something wrong and hurted someone .... .... most of us will wish and hope for the forgiveness of that person ..... ..... but are we willing to give love and forgiveness to the person who hurted us ...

When a person keep harted in his heart , he will attract harted to himself ...

Give out love and forgiveness and they will come back to you ....

When not winning is the true winning ...

Is Winning really so important ? After winning what's next ? Keep winning ? What next ? .... .....

Winning makes one feel good , but if ego kicks in , it will be very destructive ... ... Who are we really winning ? Who are we really losing to ?

What and why are we fighting for ? Do we really need to fight in order to own something ? Do we really own it when we hurt someone else ? Can one own a thing positively if they do negative things to others ? ..... ...

Case for thought : A fighter moved around fighting others for medals and titles ... he struck so hard that cracked the faces of all his opponents ... .... people named him " The Undefeated Iron fist " .... ... 5 years later , he went to challenge a man , he threw punches after punches , kicks after kicks ..... and they were all missed ... ..... not a single one got close to the man , he tried and tried , aiming so hard with all his strength wanting to defend his titles .... ...... he threw the attack non-stop .... and suddenly , he felt a tap on his head , the man said : '' Ok , you win , I got to go and do my job ..... '' { The man chop trees and make them into wood and sell to the villages }

The fight stopped , the fighter won again ...... a week later , as he was walking along the road beside the forest , he heard someone was chopping the trees , he went closer to take a look and was shocked that the man he fought a week ago was chopping trees and breaking them into pieces using his palm { His family was so poor that they don't have money to buy an axe , since young that man was trained to break trees with his palm .... }

Who really win ? Who really lose ? What is the true purpose and meaning of winning ? .... ...... Is it to please and to tell the whole world that you are able ??? If one day you never do well , then what ? ? Will it make you a loser ?

There is a greater purpose in life beside winning ? And true winning doesn't mean that we got to be ahead of someone ..... or we got to own something .....

The BASIC reason and purpose of SELF DEFENCE ....

The most basic reason of self defence is to keep safe and stay alive .... not to engage the attacker or attackers if there is an option to back off ...

No matter how good you think you are , you can't tell the standard of another person you don't understand .... to engage in that situation will put one life at risk for no good reason ... we will never engage a fight if there is an option of dis-engagement ..... especially with someone that you don't know at all is not easy to gain victory '' ....

Example : Never chase a snatch theft alone .... ....

One of my student's handphone was snatched ... and people asked her whether she gave chase ? And why I never teach them to defend their property ???

I teach self defence for students to defend againt their GREATEST PROPERTY - their life ...... STAYING ALIVE is more important than anything else ....

Train well , be SMART !!!

Reason to live ...

People come for Spiritual counseling for many different reasons ... ..... many of them came to me to find out the reason or reasons why they are here ? The aim in this life ..... .... and is that really so important ??

Some people step out of their house to work , some to play , some to meet people , some to visit someone or some places .... .... some never want to return and wish to stay out , some will return home .... some just lost their way back .... some just become lost and don't know what the reason of coming out and where to go .... ??

Do you ever have that feeling of confusion ? The feeling of getting lost ?? It is like an arrow flying without a target or an aim ... ?

Finding the reason to live will let the human understand why are they going through certain unique challenges right now ... .... when you know your purpose here , those challenges will become an interesting experience ... and not a suffering period ....

............. ................. ............ Is good to wander ... just don't forget the way HOME and the purpose for coming out ....

What is LOVE ..???

LOVE ........... ???? Simple word with a great meaning that take time to realise , different people has different understanding and interpretation... what is really right or wrong is really subjective ...

My understanding ??? .. Is going to depend on who you are ? who , what , when you love and why and for what you love it ???

I can't speak for the whole world .... but to my personal understanding , it is a very strong and powerful energy which able to turn things around .... from one side to another ... Just like the electric energy in the human world , it is always there , it is some how neutral in nature .... it is very powerful , and depend on who use it for what ..... ..... it will become a either constructive or destructive force ....

.... ...... ..... Do handle LOVE with CARE .....

Don't fight for dust ...... ......

Miko ... my 15 years old pug helped me to realise something that many people know .... but not many REALISE ...... ...........
As I showered him in the morning , his fur is dropping and water washed them away , it reminded me that how old was Miko ... and how fast time flew ... .... his body was getting weaker and weaker everyday due to old age ... .... and soon his life will pass on ..... .... and like JJ my chihuahua who passed away almost 2 years ago .... .... will turn to dust and join back into the nature - EARTH ....

Human body I am in now , is the same like them ... .... the earth provide all the food we eat, and from those food we are formed .... we came to this earth naked , with NOTHING ... and we are go to leave with NOTHING ..... .... Everything we figth for - the house ... the money .... the woman and man ..... is make from dust and will be ended up turning back into dust .... ...so what are we really fighting for .... ???

Is ok and alright to work hard to earn something ..... .... but over craving for it , till we do negative stuff will cause alot of unneccesary pain and suffering not just to ourselves , but to the energy of this universe as a whole .... .....

Life is not about fighting for more , it is about being happy of what we are having ... .... and when you are able to do that , you don't need to FIGHT for more any longer, because the MORE will just come to you .....

Count our blessing ... don't take them for granted ....

Everything we have is a blessing to us .....our health , this country ... the sun ...moon .... this universe .... ... this life we are living , are all our blessing .... ....

Our earth keep and support us here with other living creatures , we all supposed to live together in harmony , because we share this earth TOGETHER .... and due to human's ego and greed ..... they try to take over the control and destroyed the nature and caused the extinction of so many creatures ..... ego and greed not just harmed the creatures , human fight war after war and caused the death and suffering of so many innocent lives .....

Ego and greed of human now is reaching a point that is causing harm to the earth .... and she is losing the ability to heal herself ..... if they still go on , soon they will lost everything .... everything .....

Human got to count their blessing and don't take anything they have for granted .... or soon they will be left with NOTHING ..... NOTHING ....

Don't tag a special date on the special person ...

Everyday has the same hours ... same minutes and seconds ..... .... Same day and same night .... but people named a certain days different names and expect people to behave differently.... and got to treat certain group of people very nice ... example .... Mother's day ... Father's days .... Children day , Teacher's day ..... they are expected to treat their mother , father , teachers and kids very good .... bring them out .. eat good meal.... buy things for them and make them happy ....

They named certain days for certain religion and wanted people to behave super holy and love the GOD they trust ....

If you really love those people ... if you really love your GOD ..... treat every single moment a special moment ..... .... don't wait till a so called special day to make that person feel special .... ....

Don't wait for that special day ..... ..... if you really have special feeling with the people around you , every moment is SPECIAL ..... there is NO need for a special day to let that person feel SPECIAL .... If there is a need for that SPECIAL day ... that person is not really a special person in your life ....

LIFE IS GOOD !!! LIVE IT WELL !!!!!

Rainbow will appear after the storm .....

In human life , it is for sure there are challenges .... and most of the time it is these challenges that make us grow strong and wise .... - if we view it with a positive mindset ..

Bad time will never last , most importantly is what and how we set our focus upon during that period ... certain people create more challenges during the '' bad time '' by setting their focus at the negative angle ...

I suggest that we should always set our focus on LOVE , JOY and PEACE - the positive energy during the challenging period . Miracle always happen if one is able to focus right ..

Just like the sun will reappear after the storm ..... and the rainbow will be there to greet us ;) ....

No matter how dark and cold the night will be ..... Surely the sun will appear soon after that ...

Reason of positive affirmation to ourselves ..

Affirmation is a form of ''self talk'' ............. Human being never stop talking to themselves ... .....

Most of the time they are doing it unconsciously ... .... and the content in their self talk is depend on the way their mind is being conditioned ..... most of them , their mind is not being conditioned positively .... THAT'S THE CHALLENGE !!!!!

The news they watch , the songs they listen ... the movie they enjoy... the topic they discuss ... ..the people they are surrounded ..... how many percent is positive influence ...... ....

That's why people need to practise POSITIVE SELF TALK consciously for a period of time to re-condition their mind .... and choose what information they are feeding to themselves correctly .... ...

BECAUSE WHAT YOU CONSTANTLY FOCUSING ON IS WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO GET ..... ....

Life is a movie .... make it a happy one .

Spiritual counseling session allow someone to enter their '' past - lives '' .... some clients described to me that lives in the past were like movies ... ...

Some of them doubt it ... and couldn't believe what they saw in their own mind ..... ...

To me , I suggest : - what had passed is already the past ... we got to learn from it ... be wise .... let the negative energy go and move on ... there are new chapters waiting for us ..

No matter what we saw in our mind is true or false .... real or just our imagination , those images affected us , and are there to teach us a lesson , deal with it .... and continue our learning joureny ...

Since life is like a movie ..... direct it well and make it a happy and meaningful one ...

Is a blessing to be in a peaceful country with a healthy body .... if you are one who is presently having it , be happy and grateful for it ... for it is what you earned from those '' past lives '' .... give thanks ... be happy and more good things will be coming towards you ....

LIFE is GREAT !!! LOVE it WELL !!!!

You can help to sweep ...but don't bring the rubbish home ...

Many people wish to care when their friends around them are in trouble .... .... Is good to help , but a lot of them ended up in the bad energy field which belong to others .... and cause themselves in bad situation ...

Example : - ''A'' friends are in their challenges of their relationship ... their partners are being naughty ..... ''A'' tried to help , by listening to them again and again ... and ended up got emotionally affected ... ''A'' started to suspected the partner beside maybe doing nothing wrong too ..... ...... What ''A'' is doing is not going to help in the relationship at all ...

What we constantly focusing on expand !!! If in our mind there is only negative images then that is what we are going to see in real life ...

Care for someone , but make sure we are stable enough to do it well ... or else we will be next who is going to fall into the negative energy field ... .

Help someone to do cleaning ....but don't bring back people rubbish and dirty your own house ...

All is well in my world and wish the same to yours ...

Understand what you are going to believe ...

People have different belief .... ..... but how many people really understand what they believe in.. ... ??

Where , how , who , what ... we are putting our faith in is very important if we wish to enlighten our spirit in this life ...

If what you believe in never empower you .... simply change your belief ... YES !!!! Just change it !!!!

Don't worry about people say that you are going to HELL if you don't believe in them ... .... because they really don't know where they are or we are stepping now is HELL !!!! ....

Check out how they describle HELL ... and compare it here ..... .... suffering ... fear ... illnessses .... pain .... noises .... no peace .... accident .... people dying .... burning heat .... .... blood .... killing ...... stress ..... monster being killing people for no reason .... ...

Do you see all this here ???? CONGRAT !!!! You are in HELL with me now ....

Good news is HEAVEN is also here .... ..... and only one person can bring you there ...... .... that person stay within you .... is called YOURSELF ...

Where , how , who , what ,.... you put your faith in bring you to either H1 or H2 ... ... you have the choice . YES !!!! you have the choice !!!!

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Clearing the seeds in the previous texts doesn't mean make one forget about anything ... ... as I mentioned '' NOTHING can be FORGOTTEN " .... clearing seeds here meaning the '' negative energy ...feeling ...emotion ... belief .... .... " .... we got to learn from our experience in a positive manner and gain the wisdom out from it in order to allow us to step on .. ... that is the reason we are here '' THE 2H "" ... and challenges will still be around ... , what different is the way you view , see , experience , handle .... settle the situation will be different ... that is what we called it growing wisdom ... Enlightening our spirit....

We are actually SPIRITUAL BEING in " HUMAN BODY " ..... we are still what we are , never change ..... - If you take an apple and cover it up with a banana skin ... the apple in it is still an Apple ... ..........................................

ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD ... and wish the same to you ....

There is NO failure ... only result ...

In life no matter what we do .... .... we only produce result ... and when we take it positively for what ever result we have it will make us stronger , wiser , smarter ... No matter what , never name it a " FAILURE " ...

Example : - 2 sport men competing in a match , 1 win , the other never win , as long as he learnt from the match on what he does right and what he should improve , he will definitely be a better player in the near future .

So , how you view a situation will determine how the situation builds you :) ...... Be smart view it POSITIVELY

ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD and SAME TO YOU .....

You can't LOVE anyone if you don't know how to LOVE yourself

Love is a simple word that take many life time to master .... Most simple point : - if one don't have LOVE to himself or herself , it is impossible for them to give it out to someone .... you can't give to others what you don't have ???

Love is happy , kind , peace , joy .... ..... all those wonderful positive feeling that are hugging you every single second ...

Search yourself to see whether there is any wonderful positive feeling in you ...when you say you LOVE yourself .... and if you say you LOVE someone , see is the one you are LOVEing gets and has all those wonderful positive feeling when you are around ??? .... ....

If not ..... ..... that is not LOVE at all ... ...

ALL is WELL in my world and same to you my LOVE ... ...

Unclog your memories , in order to unclog your life ..

Life cycle is like water running in the stream , it runs toward the big ocean .... it must be always in constant moving flow , changing form after form '' liquid to vapour in the air and liquid back to earth '' moving in a circle ... even when we don't see it , it is around us ....

If one treated an experience as bad and refused to learn and forgive , it will be like a clog of sand blocking the flow , and will keep blocking the same sands and rocks till the stream stop to flow and form a still dirty pond ..... the pond will be there years after years .... until one day a mini crack cut through it and slowly flow through bit by bit constantly to remove those sands and rocks ..... and soon the stream will flow freely again in the the big open ocean .....

If a person refuse to learn and forgive a life experience the negative energy will soon start to clog up the life flow and attract the similar experience again and again ( no matter how far you try to escape ..no matter how much you try to change outside your life...the experience will reform itself infront of you , reason is because the so called negative energy is actually within us ... so the realization got to be from there as well ..)... aches , pains ,diseases , accidents ...are actually an alarm system that trying to wake us up to learn and unclog the flow ... Teachers and counsellors can only lead us there ... we are the one who must use our energy flow to unclog it bit by bit . - Unclogging means learning from the experience with positive mind set , and get the wisdom out from it ... ( Just like the disease we called cancer ... is build up in this manner ... is from within .... yet people try so hard to find doctors to treat from the outside ... and always what the doctors tell them is that the disease is INCURABLE .... Yes and they are RIGHT !!!!! From outside they can't do much ..... Only the person who build and create it from within can undo it FROM WITHIN !!!!!!!!!!!! ) ...

How about we die ? Will death stop the experience .. ?

I don't think so .... liquid will become vapour in the air and soon turn into rain and rain drops fall back into the clogged dirty still pond and to experience the process again ... Only when one awakened and willingly learn and forgive the matter and send it away with positive energy , till then wisdom will be learnt and the flow will be moving into the big blue ocean again....

Take time to quiet down and look closely and deeply within ourselves ... how many still dirty ponds are there in our heart ... and when are we ready to unclog it ? .... Try to start slowly and take a step at a time .... don't worry because TIME is what we have and is FOREVER ......... we will always come back in other lives to unclog it ....

............... ALL is well and always will be ..............

To start with a good ending in mind ...

Most human being believe in '' seeing is believing '' .... .... Spiritual being see the end in their mind and create their own reality ...

What about you ?... If you see yourself only as flesh and bones , you belong to the human ... If you see yourself as the spirit that live within and is the same as where you came from - the source , then you are the spiritual being ...

No matter which angles you are looking from , you are always right and no one can make you wrong - that is HOW POWERFUL YOU ARE !!!!!!!!

Now ....... ....... you want a good ending ??? Is there an ending ??? Actually NO !!!! Things never end , they just change their forms - Is the way you see it in your mind change the experiences .... ...

So , no matter what we are doing , always have a good ending experience in our mind !!!

ALL IS WELL IN MY WORLD , and SAME TO YOU ! ! !

Is always the same ...why worry ?

I was away for a short while , and during those time alone I did realize and learned a lot from the quiet momemt ...

Part 1 - Is always the same ..... why worry ?

2 elderly persons were talking , " A " told " B " how worried she was when she watched the news , that the world is in a mess ....

" B " smiled and answered , " I have been living for almost 80 years and the world was always like that , sometime war ... sometime diseases ... sometime economic down fall ... sometime terrorists will do something .... Nothing different .. is always the same old things ... is normal ... why worry ?

Part 2 - Why focus on those things which are not nice ? ..

I love to take picture , and I take almost anything that I come across... one day as I was taking the picture of a dirty drain behind a very nice shopping mall .. An elder lady stopped , looked and said this ... " I always saw people taking only nice pictures and photo ... I never seen people taking picture at that kind of things ... and I don't think it is nice .....

Yes ... I have only one shot at a time .... one focus , one click and the image stays forever .... why am I focusing and want to leave the image which is not nice in the space called " Forever " ? ....

Conclusion of my realization ..

There are always things happening around us .... good and not so good ... never change , always happening ... and there is what human called " NORMAL " ... why wasting our precious time worrying on the " NORMAL " stuff ???

Most of the situation are 2 sided , we will always have the choice to choose what we want to focus , see and remember - why not choose the beautiful side of it and empower ourselves ?

Take good care of what we are thinking ... because when we focus on it , it will expand ... and will grow ....

ALL IS WELL ... ... LIVE WITH PASSION !!!!!

Cherish it when you have it...

There are unique rules running in this universe .... if you know them and apply them well , life will start to improve every single moment ...

1 . Cherish what you have and give positive energy to it . - Joy , Love and always give thanks with a grateful heart .

2. NEVER NEVER NEVER .... apply negative energy in the situation you want to improve .

If you wish the opposite to happen , do it the other way round soon you will see the effect too ...

YES !! Apply the rules even the present circumstance is not so nice ... - the rules of the universe will start to transform your experience and very wonderful things will be happening soon .

Look at your surrounding and notice the bright side of it , apply the positive energy to it and wait for miracle to happen .

If you really realise what you are now - a '' spiritual being '' you should know our unique abilites . That is , we see our future through our mind and our faith and positive energy make it real ...

..... ....... ...... watch out what you really wish for and focus on with constant energy applying to it .... .... because it will grow .

All is well ... ... Live with PASSION !!

Taking control part 2

We are living in this unique place call EARTH ..... the reason we are here is to learn the subjects we have chosen before we were borned.. All things is planned and to a certain extent , " set up " before we were here ... thats why we come here with " NO THING " and will leave with " NO THING " ... ..... we only bring away - Wisdom of our experiences ..

Just like you booked a fully planned and fully paid with all facilities oversea tour trip , you just need to be there and everything will be taken care of , to make sure you enjoy the experience of the trip ...

I don't mean you can simply run around naked and sit there do nothing .... I mean you just need to be relax , do things with joy , love and peace , have faith and the best for you will be with you on the right time ... is like how our heart and lung do their job .... we just need to do our simple tasks - rest , eat , exercise then be happy and they will simply do the rest for us ..

Some people who are close to me will understand and witnessed what I mean ... or maybe you also had experienced " THE MAGIC MOMENT '' ... we certainly are able to create it again ...

READ and UNDERSTAND the following properly , because that will change your life totally from the moment you start to practice it....

There is a chef who is making a dish , he use ingredients like red and green pepper , pepper powder , mini chillies , curry powder ....... what will be the taste of the dish at the end ?

Another dish the ingredients - he adds - honey , sugar , sweet potatoes .... what will the taste of the dish be ????

If the intention of the chef is to make a sweet dish but he keeps adding hot spicy ingredients .... do you think the dish will turn out to be sweet ???

We are the chef , the ingredients are the ways we treat , feel , think , act , be and lead our every moment " NOW '' and the dish is our " FUTURE " .... .... you can get the magic in it ???

LOVE , PEACE and JOY be with you always . ALL IS WELL .... ALL IS WELL ...

Thank you for raising me up ...

Life is great with people who rise you up and make you learn ..... They may not be just your school teachers ...may not be just your family members ..... may not be just your close one .... THEY ARE EVERY WHERE .....

When the student is ready the teachers will appear ... and will appear in every forms at every where .....in every second ....

Everyone in my life is my great teacher ... they taught me all the things I know and all things that I need to understand .... They make me grow wiser and stronger ....

I may once consider them " bad " .... or " naughty " .... but they actually are in my teachers group who assisted me in learning my life path ...

If you are reading this chapter of my blog now ... THANK YOU !!! YOU ARE ONE OF MY TEACHERS AND YOU RISE ME UP !!!!! THANK YOU !!!!

Train to fight !!! Fight to win yourself and your EGO !!!!

After training in more than 6 different forms of Martial Art for more than 22 years , I was frequently asked about this question - Do you think you can defeat so and so from where and where ????

My answer is - If a Martial Artist only thinks about fighting so and so to win , then most probably he is a person who lose the most ......

The true purpose of Martial Art is not for defeating anyone out there .... but to win the only one within YOU !!!! Your EGO !!!!

Everyone know how to swing punches and kicks to hurt someone ...... everyone knows how to fight ... even a stray animal knows how to do it ... you don't need to look for a Sifu to teach you .....

You can't win by returning a fist from a fist .... that will only cause more hurt and hatred .....

When in a sparring session - when you can win , don't hurt your friend , when you can't win , admit it and train harder , learn from the better one .... you can try hard , but don't let your EGO takes you over ...

A True Martial Artist build their character , train up their body , mind and spirit to be a good person in life , they never win by hurting someone weaker than him .... never win by losing their temper and they will never let EGO take over their mind ....

The only person that you want to win is YOU !!!!! YOUR EGO !!!!!

Be smart .... RUN !!!

For Personal Protection matters : Always run to take cover when you don't feel safe .... engagement and confrontation is always the last option ...

1. Be smart and proactive

2. Think and act safely

3. Run !!! and Always scream for HELP !!!!! or FIRE !!!!

If a confrontation is a MUST ..... Be smart and STRIKE DEADLY ... and RUN !!!!

CUT off the C 4 ( Critical 4 ) of the attacker

1. VISION

2. BREATHING

3. BALANCE

4. MIND

Take good care and defend your C4 at the same time ...

Be smart ... learn self defence when you don't need it .

What are you focusing in your mind ??

Average human being can have more than 30,000 thoughts a daily ...

What a person focus constantly is what he is attracting .. Then we really got to check and think our thoughts properly ...

A lot of people were being brought up in a critical and abusive environment .... so most of the mind is being conditioned to think and feel that we are not good enough ... we are not worthy for anything good ...

Normally a mind conditioned in this manner will be thinking negative thoughts most of the time .. WHAT YOU FOCUS IS WHAT WILL EXPAND !!!

Don't blame our parents , because they too were brought up in this manner ... that was their best way to treat and educate their children ...

To make sure that we don't pass down those manner of coaching , we got to claim back our power .... notice and realize that we are adult now and the control is within us , WE GOT TO RE-COACH OURSELVE in a loving and encouraging way ..

Learn from the past and just let it PASS !!!!

No matter what other people think and say about you is NOT IMPORTANT at all !!! You MUST NEVER CRITICISE and LOOK DOWN upon youself ....

Our mind can only able to focus on single side at a time .... Let it be the POSITIVE side ...

Live a lovely life every second ...

Take control ...

" Taking control " ... what does it really mean in this place we called EARTH ...

Can we really so called CONTROL something here ? Think again ? How we ended up here ? How are we being formed ?

What is happening to all those things when human is trying to get control turning into ... ?

What is true '' CONTROL " ?

Who is doing it ?

How to do it well ? ...

In order to understand the true meaning .... check on this

1. How human body is being formed ?

2. How the human heart beats ?

3. How a human breathe ? ....

Once you understand it .... you will find the true meaning of living a human life .... and know the true meaning of '' CONTROL " ...

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We can live the life in heaven , even we are in this place we called EARTH ...

Body fat control ...

Fat is a protective layer in the body to keep us safe and warm ...

Everybody need it ... It is just like the " bullet proof vest " of a special force member ...

When I was in the SF , we do have certain types of bullet vest ... different level for resistance to different calible of bullets and firearms ..

If there is an operation to arrest a gun man with a small hand gun and you see a member wearing a vest to resist a powerful machine gun ... What does it tells you about the inner world of that person ?

Does he feel safe ? Does he feel strong ? Does he has fear ? Does he have faith ? How he feels about the surrounding and friends around him ?

Only ourselve can really give faith and calmness to our own ... Look within us ... what caused this to happened ? Why we still hold on to the past and living it ? Does it really serve us well ? When do you intend to let it rest ?

Overloading ourselve .... what are the reasons behind it ? To scare people off ? To tell people we are scared ? To make us walk slowly and safely ? To make us not walking ? ... To stop us from moving on ? ...

Is ok to gain some weight ... but if the body starts to grow thicker without control ... that may not be healthy ....

The short term solution is to go on diet ... exercise plan ..... go gym ... get trainer .... .... but if the mind and spirit never move out from the " scary past" .... the problem will still return ...

In order to do the true healing ... one got to start healing from deep within .

Understand and know what you are learning

Martial Art , should be a complete system in combat .

Ranging from all strikes , throws , take down , sweeps , locks and all form of control and restrain techniques .

From standing to on the ground . From armed to unarmed .. From training of the body to the mind and the spirit ... It teaches the people to keep peace and love one another .

Now , human split it into different chapters and forms for different purposes ...

1 . For appreciation
2. For demonstration
3. For sport and competition
4. For keeping fit
5. For self defence ...

Sometime certain trainers able to provide the training system and methods to fulfill certain above mentioned pointers ...

Check and review your purpose of training the type of art that you are practicing now .... does it really serve you .... ?

Train smart ... Gossip less ...

Martial art world is a small circle ....

It is supposed to be a place to practice respect , discipline , team work and love ... To improve one's mind , body and spirit .....

But due to the ego of human ... they started to fight and compete against one another .... and turn that world in an another place without peace ....

Lots of time , even the same organization can't maintain the harmony among themselves ... how are them able to command respect of others ....

We as coaches of the Art need to uphold the image and give the true meaning and purpose back to the Art itself ....

STOP FIGHTING FOR EGO !!!!!! AND STOP GOSSIPING ABOUT OTHERS !!!!!

Good deed with no good return .....

Some people keep saying " Good things will happen if you do good deeds '' ...Some people say " Good person will not have good ending '' ..... ....

What a person belief become reality in his own world ....

Whatever thoughts in the mind will send out energy that attract the circumstances with the similar energy to your life ....

When a person do good things .... what is the actual thoughts in mind ?

Certain people do good with a sincere and cheerful heart ...

Certain people do good to wait for a favour in return ...

Certain people feel that they are being " forced " to do good ...

The energy that presence in the mind will attract and send to you what is in it ....

Do good with a sincere and cheerful heart ...

Law Of Attraction

Law Of Attraction ...

What is it ?

How to make it work for us ?

Why sometime it don't really work so well ?

..... ..... Human being ..... what is it ? How we control ourselves ?

My previous posting did touch on the subject ..

Our thoughts create our experience ... and our experience can affect our thoughts ....( they are connected and affecting one another like a circle ).. and that form our destiny .

So through proper Spiritual counseling , one can reach out into his own mind , to "relearn" the past experiences and get the true wisdom from it.

When our mind is wise and clear , we will be able the see things around us differently ..

Even without Spiritual Counseling , one still can calm down the mind by practicing LOVE and FORGIVENESS ... that not just applying to the things outside and around us , we got to do it to ourselves and within ourselves ....

Our spirit can assist us to work with our mind , in order to let us " think right " ... Thoughts from the mind is a form of energy , - energy is a form of " vibration " ....

" Garbage in .... will only make garbage out ...." ....

Stable mind - will give out stable thoughts - which attracts stable experience ....

Unstable mind - will give out unstable thoughts - which attracts unstable experience ...

What is your mind thinking ? What energy are you sending out ? What are you experiencing now ...? .... They are all connected .

Choose what you think wisely ;)

Martial Art .....

Martial Art .....

To me :

Martial - connected with fighting or war ....

Art - the use of imagination to express ideas or feeling ....

Skill , tactics and techniques use in combat .... in real combat situation everything is applicable . From all sorts of strikes , throws , take down , sweeps ... joint locks , armed and unarmed , from standing to ground work ..... is a skill of survival during engagement in a combat situation ... it suppose to be formless ....

It suppose to educate human in self defence , self defence not just in physical , but mental and spiritual .....

But due to human's ego and thinking that everyone must have their own identity ... they split it up .... ... and called it many different names .... and start to fight against one another .... Even when they are in the so called "same name "... people still fight among themselves .....

Hope that one day human will give the MARTIAL ART it's TRUE MEANING ....

Karma ....

Is Karma " transferrable " ?

If a person found himself in bad luck and he went through a ritual to clear it away , will the bad luck transfer to his close family ?

To me ....

'' Karma '' is the gulit feeling and the punishment one giving to himself when he believed that he did something bad ..

Is like the '' back pack '' he choose to leave it up .... and only himself can make that decision to put it down .... no one can take it away from him ....



And when he put it down , it will not pass to any other person ...

BUT ...... You live in the world that you created through your belief .... whatever you belief will turn into reality in your own eyes ...



* Choose your belief carefully ....

Subconscious mind ....

Our human mind has Conscious and Subconscious division ..

I believe that subconscious mind is so much stronger and powerful compare to the conscious side of it .... some scientists said that the ability of " Subcon " is around 30000 times stronger than the " Con " ... which means : if consciously Mr A is able to lift up 100 kg of weight , then subconsciously Mr A will be able to lift up to 100 * 30000 kg of weight ....

In martial art and sport world , we practice drills after drills in order to let the techniques be programmed into our " Subcon " mind .... and research shows that " Subcon " is more than 5 times faster than the " Con " mind ... If Mr A " Con " reaction time is 1 second , then his " Subcon " reaction time will be 5 times much faster than " Con " mind ..

Our " Subcon " is very good in taking our command .... whatever we constantly feed the " Subcon " , they will take it in as real and send the wave energy to the universe , and soon what we think will turn into reality in our own world ....

So .... we have a so-called '' wonderful tool '' with us , if we programme it correctly it will be able to assist us in accomplishing the greater good in our lives .

NOW !!!! The key is simple : NEVER !!!! NEVER !!!!! NEVER !!!!!! Feed any negative information to your " Subcon " .... through all means .

Reprogramme them by clearing away the negative memories , learn from them and start to feed and take in only all good and positive information , soon you will be able to see great things happen in your own world .

Life is SO GREAT !!!!!

Forgiveness is one of the best way to stay happy and strong ..

Forgiveness ..... is an easy word , which require great courage to be applied , especially to the person who caused us " great hurt " .....

What was done could not be undone ..... dwelling in the feeling of hatred and unforgiveness will only cause us more pain , greater suffering and soon illnesses ...
I suggest we remain calm ... review the incidents again ... learn the wisdom in it .... forgive the incident ... forgive the person involved and most importantly forgive ourself ... release the negative feeling and energy in it and step on ...

Nothing can be forgotten , but they can be forgiven .... Only through true forgiveness we are able to see the true wisdom in an incident .

Ask ourself : '' what was the thought in our mind that let us attract the incident ....''

Take full responsibility of it ! Yes ! FULL RESPONSIBILITY !!!!! = The ability to RESPONSE .... We can only change and take charge of what is belong to us , pushing the blame to someone else only make us become a weak and helpless victim ..... Victim only suffer ..... So if you want to solve it , take full responsibility of it and change .... Look at the bright side , learn , forgive and step on .

Our thought creates the world around us .... Be very careful of what you are feeding your mind .... How do you talk to yourself .... who are you with most of the time ..... Only choose the thought that EMPOWER us !!!!!!

A happy and joyful mind will make a strong and nice body .

Planting and clearing of seeds ....

Lots of time we heard people saying this : we reap what we sow .....

But I believe we do reap what other people sow for us as well .. " Seeds here meaning the thought that being planted in the sub-conscious mind " .. Certain time we called this process " Mental Conditioning " .. When is the process most effective ?

1. When in great pain

2. When being unconscious

3. When in great emotional unstability state

4. When we are young , normally childhood period

5. Influence by our parents and close relatives

6. Influence by authority figures

7. By keep repeating through our senses

Etc ..... above mentioned are the more common types

It will lead us to believe in certain things . What people choose to believe always appear true in their world , your world is shaped by your thoughts . It will cause us to behave in certain ways consciously and even unconsciously .....

A lot of our beliefs are passed down by the above mentioned pointers ..... read through them thoroughly and keep only those belief that empower us .

What passed has passed , holding onto the bad memories only cause us to keep attracting negative situations toward us ..... Learn from experiences and step up to be strong and wise .

Cherish every single present and live it to the fullest , because the future is formed up by every single present .